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Shannon & Joshua

MMXXVIII

The Marriage of

Shannon Sommers
and
Joshua Kaufman

V · XX · MMXXVIII

A Book of Days

Sommers · Kaufman

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Frontispiece

Shannon and Joshua smiling in Central Park in front of lilac bushes

Shannon and Joshua

From a photograph by TK

The Marriage of

Shannon Sommers & Joshua Kaufman

A Romance in Seven Chapters

Saturday, the Twentieth of May

MMXXVIII

New York

At the Public Library, Fifth Avenue

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Claude Monet, The Artist’s Garden at Giverny, 1900 · Yale University Art Gallery · Public domain

Claude Monet, Poppy Field in a Hollow near Giverny, 1885 · Public domain

Shannon and Joshua embracing, foreheads touching, on a carved stone terrace in Central Park
Shannon and Joshua sitting close together on a park bench, smiling
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Shannon and Joshua walking hand in hand beside the lake, the skyline behind them

The Portrait Gallery

A Few Likenesses

I.

Prologue

In which the story comes back around

“Not quite what one expected, but once it happened one realized it couldn’t be any other way.”
Donna Tartt, The Secret History

When Shannon was twelve, she stood in Bryant Park on Poem in Your Pocket Day and read a very angsty poem to a small crowd of listeners.

The library on the same block was already a place she loved, though she didn’t go inside that day.

The years to come would carry the details of Josh and Shannon’s stories: a rogue Facebook message, a nervous boy under a clock, a bundle of hair in a Ziploc bag, and a trip or two on the Metro-North.

On the day Josh proposed, he brought Shannon back to that corner and handed her poems he asked her bridesmaids to write.

In May, they get married next door.

Colin Campbell Cooper, New York Public Library, c. 1915 · Public domain

II.

The Day

Contents

Black tie optional. Saturday, May 20, 2028, at the Stephen A. Schwarzman Building, 476 Fifth Avenue.

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  1. i The Ceremony seven o’clock

    Astor Hall, beneath the marble arches

  2. ii Cocktails half past seven

    Location TK

  3. iii Dinner & Dancing half past eight

    Bartos Forum

  4. iv An Epilogue until one

    After-party details TK

“If you have a garden and a library, you have everything you need.”
Cicero, Letters to Friends Si hortum in bibliotheca habes, deerit nihil.

Claude Monet, La Grenouillère, 1869 · The Metropolitan Museum of Art · Public domain

III.

Travel

Tips for finding your way to Fifth Avenue, filed for easy reference.

“I am not afraid of storms, for I am learning how to sail my ship.”
Louisa May Alcott, Little Women

No. i · Arrivals

By Air

Three airports serve the city: LaGuardia (LGA), John F. Kennedy (JFK), and Newark (EWR). LaGuardia is closest to Midtown, typically 30 to 45 minutes by car.

Our recommendation. For guests flying through JFK, note that yellow taxis have an official flat fare of $70 for trips between the airport and anywhere in Manhattan. (This applies only to NYC Taxi and Limousine Commission yellow cabs — it never hurts to confirm with the driver that you are in an official cab before getting in the car!) Alternatively, for our most transit-savvy travelers, you can take the AirTrain at JFK to Jamaica and then transfer to the Long Island Rail Road to Grand Central.

No. ii · Lodging

Where to Stay

We have reserved a block of rooms at Hotel TK, a short walk from the library. Mention code TK and book by TK.

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No. iii · The Venue

Finding the Library

The library is located at 476 Fifth Avenue, on the corner of 42nd Street. Take the B, D, F or M to 42 St–Bryant Park, or the 7 to Fifth Avenue. Grand Central is two blocks east.

Look for Patience and Fortitude, the lions on the steps. Evening entrance TK.

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Endpapers · An illustrated plan of the blocks around the library. Not to scale. Your hotel · TK
IV.

Registry

Your presence is the gift. For those who have asked, some special things for the home we are building live on our registry.

Shannon and Joshua looking at each other and laughing among white azaleas

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Claude Monet, The House Among the Roses · Public domain

V.

Marginalia

Things to do, annotated

“It is for love. You are doing this for love.”
Paul Murray, The Bee Sting
  1. 1

    The Conservatory Garden

    Six formal acres at Fifth Avenue and 105th Street. The closest thing Manhattan has to a secret garden, gate and all.

  2. 2

    The Morgan Library & Museum

    Pierpont Morgan’s private library, three tiers of walnut shelving, six blocks south of ours on Madison Avenue.

  3. 3

    The Museum of Modern Art

    Home of Monet’s Water Lilies, a panorama of his pond that stretches across an entire wall. A short walk up Sixth Avenue.

  4. 4

    Albertine

    A French bookshop sits beneath a ceiling of painted constellations. On the Upper East Side, just blocks from where Shannon and Josh live.

  5. 5

    The Strand

    Eighteen miles of books at Broadway and 12th. Plan to lose an afternoon.

  6. 6

    Where We Eat

    Our favorite tables in the city: TK, TK, and TK.

Chapter VI

Notes & Queries

No. VI.New York, Saturday, May 20, 2028Price: One Reply

Query I. On Attire

What should I wear?

A Guest in Want of a Gown

Reply. Black tie optional: tuxedos or dark suits with ties; floor-length gowns, elegant cocktail-length dresses or dressy separates. Above all, wear shoes you can dance in all night. Our palette is lavender (worn by the bridesmaids, but all are welcome), periwinkle, blush, and deep forest green, should you wish to join the garden.

Watercolor fashion sketches of twelve guests in formal attire: floor-length gowns in burgundy, lilac floral, navy lace, emerald and blush, a sleeveless tea-length black dress, and black, navy, charcoal, brown and grey tuxedos and suits
Plate I. Suggestions for the Evening

Query II. On Themes

Is there a theme?

One Who Loves a Brief

Reply. If you are looking for inspiration, our theme is something along the lines of secret garden library.

That being said, please do not worry if you find themes more stressful than soothing. As Josh’s mother (and Shannon’s honorary bridesmaid), Janet, wisely put it: “The theme of the wedding is marriage.” Our top priority is celebrating with you, in whatever clothes make you feel comfortable and confident — everything else is secondary.

Query III. On Replying

By what date ought I to reply?

Punctual, of Park Slope

Reply. Kindly reply by TK through our RSVP page, linked in the final chapter.

Query IV. On Companions & Children

May I bring a guest, or my children?

A Party of More Than One

Reply. We have made every effort to include partners, companions and families, where possible; your invitation envelope will reflect exactly who is invited, children included. If you believe there has been an oversight (or there are any personnel changes!), please reach out to us directly; we would be more than happy to help.

Query V. On Access

Is the library accessible?

A Careful Planner

Reply. Ramp access is available at the 42nd Street side entrance, between Fifth and Sixth Avenues; a street-level accessible entrance is available at 40th Street. All levels of the building can be accessed by an elevator at the north end of the library.

Query VI. On Photographs

May I take photographs during the ceremony?

An Amateur of the Camera

Reply. Because we would love for you to be fully present with us during the ceremony, we kindly ask that phones and cameras stay tucked away as much as possible. Seats near the aisle come with a small responsibility: please choose one only if you can trust yourself to keep your phone in your lap and the aisle clear for our photographer the whole time. Our lovely photographer will capture every moment, and we will be sure to share the pictures with you afterward. For cocktail hour and all that follows, we would be thrilled to see the evening through your eyes.

Query VII. On the Weather

What is New York like in late May?

A Traveller from Afar

Reply. Usually mild, with daytime highs around the low 70s °F and cooler evenings. The wedding is entirely indoors, but you may do well to bring a wrap for the walk home.

Please note that Astor Hall, our ceremony space, is not air conditioned. (We do not anticipate this being a problem in May, and the marble floors help keep things temperate even in the event of a heat wave. We have tested this ourselves during some of the hottest days of summer and can confirm it is true.) The Bartos Forum, where the reception will take place, does have air conditioning.

Query VIII. From the Household

Speaking for the felines, may we attend? And will there be tuna?

R., a Long-Haired Correspondent

Reply. The Library, regrettably, admits no cats. Even the famous lions must wait outside. Our cat, Ruthie, will attend in spirit. Tuna is not on the menu — we do not wish to add insult to injury.

Claude Monet, Bridge over a Pond of Water Lilies, 1899 · The Metropolitan Museum of Art · Public domain

VII.

Kindly Reply

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“Reader, I married him.”
Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre

We would be so glad to know you will be with us. Kindly send your reply, meal selection, and any notes through our RSVP page.

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